Blog

Although many imagine sex therapy as a practice to get rid of negative kinks and fetishes, it’s much more than that. No problem comes to an end with a slap of a leather whip. Instead, sexology works like most other therapies. You sit down with your partner and therapist and talk until you reach some form of conclusion. What’s more, it’s constructive to seek sex advice even if you think that your bedroom action is the best in the world.

 

For some couples, sex comes naturally, and they understand how to make the most of it. They know all about being selfish and generous at the same time. However, they’re not the majority. Instead, most partners are altogether unaware of how to sail their ships through the waters of sweet, sweet love. We’ll, therefore, list some crucial health and sex advice from sexologists in the following few paragraphs.

You

… Read More

Sexology is the science that studies sex, that simple! To be more specific, it is the science that studies the sexuality of the human being, sexual behavior and its different manifestations. All of these from the psychological and physiological point of view.

A sexologist is a professional who performs various tasks: sexual education, guidance, couples’ counseling and intervention, and research.

The professional will treat the patient from the psychological and therapeutic point of view since there is a diversity of problems which can be extended to both fields. Including everything that has to do with the relationship between men and women, not only about sexual perfomance; but what happens to their lives too.

Communication’s problems, affective needs, maternity-paternity issues, and mediation in separation and divorces are also issues that a sexologist can deal with.

Since we have a sex negative and pleasure negative culture, the field of clinical sexology is

… Read More

Stamina isn’t just about how many miles you can run. It also refers to how long you can get it on. There’s no one-size-fits-all way to increase your sexual stamina, but there are some major factors that come into play.

Here’s how to last longer in bed, no matter what genitalia you’re rockin’.

Masturbate your way to bangin’ endurance

Solo love making can help you last longer when you’re doing the deed with a partner. Instead of falling into the same masturbation routine you’ve been doing for years, try something new.

If you have a vagina:

• Invest in some sex toys. If you buy a variety of toys, you’ll never get bored.
• Lube up. Lubrication can help you feel more comfortable and increase your pleasure.
• Practice orgasm control. Try bringing yourself to the brink of an orgasm and then stop right before you climax. If you do this again and

… Read More

I’m really not sure what people think when they discover that I’m a sexologist but I sure get some interesting questions including ones about my sex life. Some people seem to assume that a sexologist lives a blessed life without sexual concerns. Or that we are exaggeratedly horny having sex all the time. Wrong! I can’t speak to the sex lives of my fellow sexologists but I can with all certainty tell you one thing: We’re all human beings.

Sometimes the questions I get asked are rude. I mean really, would you ask anyone else that same thing? But often times it’s nothing more than bewildered curiosity. In fact one of the questions my husband gets asked a lot is “Don’t you find that intimidating?” His answer is always a simple “No”.

But there is a question that comes up with a fair amount of frequency. “Can you really relate …

Read More

Some tips are there for a long distance relationship to work better than the average distance relationships. It never fails: You find the perfect match and live thousands of miles away. Long distance relationships can be difficult, and not everyone is disconnected to work. You need a lot of communication, some high-tech sex toys and some creative thinking. If you are in love with someone who lives far away, or who spends long periods away from home, here are some ideas on how to survive the distance.

Enter A Routine

Long distance relationships are difficult when you can’t see each other regularly. You cannot put together a routine together: what night you will go out, what night you will stay and what tomorrow you will enjoy pizzas and sex together, so easily. Although you cannot establish a routine in person, you can create your long-distance routine.

• When will you talk

… Read More

If you prefer adult fiction over an adult film, we’ve got you. Though there are a number of porn sites for women out there, we also completely understand if that’s just not your thing. Luckily, there are plenty of great sources for your erotic reading pleasure. Whether you’re looking for your next Fifty Shades of Grey or want to hear other women’s sexy experiences, you’re bound to find one that works for you ahead. See six steamy sites to read tonight.

Remittance Girl: Enjoy a variety of erotic fiction written by a single author who goes by the name of Remittance Girl. Readers can skip straight to what they’re looking for because the major themes (rough sex, fetish, female-female, etc.) of each story are shown beneath the link.

Literotica: Though the website itself could use a bit of an upgrade, it’s the content that really matters. Literotica is sourced by …

Read More

Every year, pornography tangles up millions of people in its sticky spider webs. It rolls them up like hapless flies, and sucks out their brains until they are pretty much the walking dead. Christians are not exempt. And we are finally starting to admit it and talk about it.

But there is still something missing in the discussion. Most of the time, articles about the negative effects of pornography focus on men. Women have set up lawn chairs on the sidelines, often as despairing wives who wonder how to deal with their porn-entangled husbands.

And this seems only right, because many of us believe that pornography is mostly a male problem. Although women are increasingly consuming pornography, the majority of users of internet porn are still men. For instance, CovenantEyes reports that “68 percent of young adult men and 18 percent of women use porn at least once every week,” …

Read More

Whether sex toys for women, for men or for couples – in recent years, the world of sex toys has literally changed. In addition to the classic toys such as dildos and vibrators for women, there are now great products for the male sex and for the application in pairs. New forms, colors, extraordinary designs and new seductive techniques await you time and again. In our large selection you will surely find something very special for you. Be inspired and experience enjoyable times.

Vibrant pleasure charms

A vibrator brings variety into lovemaking. Women can explore their lust and come to overwhelming orgasms. And even couples, the classic vibrators offer a range of ways to break out of everyday routine or just try something new.

Preferences are known to be individual and very different. That’s why there are countless forms, materials and functions to choose from when choosing vibrators. Our …

Read More

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how we might actually achieve those things? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex psychotherapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the specifics. This week’s topic: How to find porn and erotica for women that you’ll actually like.

Q: I’ll admit it: I read 50 Shades of Grey and secretly loved it. I’ve always been curious about other types of erotica and porn, but never had the nerve to look into it that much. Where do I start? I’d rather not have to sift through male-oriented porn sites.

A: Welcome to the wide and wonderful world of smut! 50 Shades of Grey definitely catapulted erotica into the mainstream, and as a result, there are more options than …

Read More

Erotic fiction stories are one of the most indulgent yet easy ways to get yourself in the mood for sex or masturbation. There’s just something so stirring about letting your mind wander with a bit of erotic escapism – sexual arousal begins in the brain, after all.

Know you don’t have to pay for it, no mam. Sex stories are available for free online so all of us can get our erotic kicks without even leaving our bedrooms. Here’s where you can read great free erotica online.

1. Cosmopolitan UK
We have our own amazing team of contributors who are expert masters in the art of tasteful adult stories. You can read any of of our many erotic short stories, and be safe in the knowledge there’s a story to suit your turn-ons, whatever they are. A Fresh Start is a very adult story about getting over an ex by …

Read More